If height didn't matter at all when people paired up, the gap between husbands' and wives' heights would just follow from how tall men and women are on average. The Economist compared that "random pairing" guess to real married couples β and the two pictures don't quite match.
Start here β this is the source that inspired this exploration.
If who marries whom had nothing to do with height, the difference between husbands' and wives' heights would simply reflect the two separate height distributions of men and women. The Economist compared that "random pairing" prediction with real US marriage data spanning 1999 to 2023 β and found a real, persistent gap. This idea uses that comparison to explore what a "random" baseline actually predicts, and how far reality strays from it.